Last Day of 2008

The whole office celebrated the last day of 2008 by having cycling for half the day at ECP.

I think I have never cycled as early as 9+am b4 and it's good I will say. The sun is not THAT hot yet and ECP is kinda empty. We had the road all to ourselves. However, we were tired (leg pain, butt pain) after cycling for abt an hour plus and thus we settled down at BK to rest and chat.

And after all the chatting, it's time to return the bike. And after which, everyone of us was provided with a box of mixed fruits. Healthy day huh.. exercise and fruits.

Just as we were having fruits, one of our colleagues went to try out Jumping Jack. I believe it's some kinda new sports which you have to wear a shoe with some bouncing "sticks" attached so you are "taller" which Lub Lub commented that it's stupid the other day. haha. Anyway you got to pay $5 for 10 min and it looks tough. At least on my colleague. After he tried, we saw some other kids trying out and they were STEADY man!!! They managed to go on their own after a little while. Wow...

All of us were dismissed at 12+pm and here I am, home sweet home.

Going to my uncle place for gathering tonight. Hoping to catch all the firework at his place!!

Anyway, I would like to wish all of you a very happy new year and may you be healthy, wealthy and happy always in 2009~~

2009 resolution

Previously I have blogged abt what are the memorable times and achievements I have done in 2008. Was chatting with frens and realised I have yet to think about my new year resolution.

I guess it’s time to do some thinking.

1. Better relationship with family members. As I started working and being in a r/s, the time I spent with my family is lesser. Will try to spend more time with them and try to understand them more and build a better r/s with them.

2. Healthier lifestyle. I started to snack more and exercise less. It’s bad! Time to go back to my healthy lifestyle. Stop snacking and exercise more. Since I have my foldable bike liao, I shall cycle more. Lose some weight and fall sick less often.

3. Travelling. I love travelling. I’m glad that I travelled to quite a number of places this year and I hope to be able to continue my adventure next year. Aiming for Australia and maybe Vietnam or China. And of coz will still go for my short getaway trips to beaches.

4. Do better in work. I love my job and I hope that I will continue to love what I’m doing and have more achievement.

5. Save more and spend less. Though I have been saving an amount every mth. But somehow I started to overspend. Shall stop spending on unnecessary items and save more. For our future.

6. Improve my r/s with lub lub. Though our r/s is quite stable already but I still wish for more improvement. Hope to have a better r/s with him. Hope my family can accept him totally too. And well… see if we are ready for the next level then. :)

7. Happy. Happy. Happy. And happy.

Emotional

Was chatting with yeek last night on MSN, realised that somehow we were facing the same problem.

Feel that she can really understand my unhappiness and 无助ness, just like in the last post.

I guess you can only fully understand a situation and feeling IF you have experienced the same thing before.

I do love my parents. I do love my family. And I know that they love me too. Just that, perhaps, their way of showing love is something which I can’t accept at times.

I knew that when she threw cold water at me, she is just worried and being concern or simply naggy. But no1 loves to be thrown cold water at. I can try to control and ignore, but every words she said still hurt me. That’s because she mean a lot to me. If not I wouldn’t even have cared.

Generation gap. That might be the reason.

I don’t think I’m asking for too much. I just want her moral support in the things I do. I don’t need all the cold water. I just wished that she can share all my joy with me and not giving cold and negative comments.

Yes, I know her thinking is traditional and different from me. But now we are no longer living in the 60s or 70s. Time has changed. And so we have to adjust our thinking too right.

You guys may not know it, but I do have restrictions made by her. I’m not having as much freedom as you all are having. And I never rebel to all these restrictions which I do not agree to. I just quietly accept and obey. But deep inside me, I need the freedom. I’m not a kid anymore. I’m already 25 years old. I’m an adult. I can take care of myself well enough. I want to lead a life like the other 25 years old can at times.

I wish that I can go out as often as I wish to. I wish that I can go out as late as I wish to. I wish that I can do whatever I want. But I still will make time to have dinner at home, spend time at home. (That’s what I’m doing now)

Seeing the difference between her and grandma, I can see the same thing between her and me. Seeing the way she got 气煞by my grandma, it’s just like how I feel at times when I talk to her.

Whatever it is, I still do love my parents. And sometimes I even feel that I didn’t do enough, though to others I have done enough. But, I just wish that they can be a little more supportive.

And I’m really happy that I have a supportive lub lub who is always there for me when I need him. He shares my joy and sorrow and speaking to him always makes me feel better. Thanks lub lub.

我是多余的

开开心心带着foldable bike回家，（这一阵子它都在熊熊家，因为熊熊还在为它打扮与改装。）却被嫌弃。

是的，是我的错。

是我嫌家里不够多东西，所以再加多一样。

是我没有在熊熊买这脚车前停止他这么做，告诉他家里没有位。

是我笨，不会在ECP租脚车，硬要带一辆回家。

也许，我根本不应该属于这个家。

一个人霸占了一整个房间，还要把脚车放在客厅。

也许，就如你们所说的，妈咪在医院生我后，回家时不小心抱错了孩子，应该是隔壁床的胖男生才对。（虽然这只是骗小孩子的小玩笑，但是却永远都烙印在我的心中。）

是的，女儿是赔钱货。

我想，我只不过是家中的extra。

Post Christmas

See how pro the-boy-I-love is? He is just soooooo cute... and noty.. haha.. but still I enjoy and love to play with him.
Can you spot what's wrong with this little card? (no prize for those who guessed correctly though..)

Lunching

Thanks lub lub for coming down to lunch with me.

Muacks!!!

圣诞收获

从小，就没有怎么庆祝圣诞节。原因很简单，家里不是信耶稣，父母认为圣诞节没什么值得庆祝。就因为如此，父母也很少送圣诞礼物给我们。（只记得小时候好像收到一两次而已）很奇怪的，身边的朋友也没有特别庆祝圣诞的习惯，所以就没有所谓的gift exchange。

自从上班后，有些同事就会在圣诞节是准备一些小礼物送给其他的同事。而今年我收到了一些“我并没有expect他会送礼物给我的同事”所送的礼物，还真的有些意外。

1. Irene – Precious thoughts 的小盒子兼摆设。很sweet很美。
2. Lay Keow – Flower from Children Cancer Foundation。
3. Yanting – crunchy toffee shortbread。没吃过，也还没开来吃。哈哈。
4. Naj – Body shop 的strawberry soap。香香的。
5. Sha – cute little sheep with santa hat and scarf hp chain。已吊在我的手机上。
6. Hwee Keow – 亲手做的可爱的猫猫磁铁。
7. Cass – body scrub。昨天开来用，还蛮不错的。
8. Laura – forever friends note book。可爱~
9. Steph – Chocolate spoon。很特别！在喝咖啡还是其他热饮时，用choco spoon搅拌，choco spoon会溶化，咖啡或热饮就会有巧克力味道啦~
10. Nur – Sins Chocolate。似乎Sins就是她的代表，因为去年也是收到同样的礼物哦~
11. Noor – towel cupcake。有创意~
12. Jean – 熊猫钥匙扣和巧克力。Reminded me of sumone. Wahahaha.
13. Khairul – 豆腐coin bank。很可爱~~~
14. Alex – hamster (?) hp chain.看过这动物好几次，但一直搞不清楚是什么动物。哈哈。

今年的圣诞我觉得特别温暖。虽然以往家里没有gift exchange的习惯，但是今年我似乎有了第二个家。收到了熊熊和家人送的礼物，感觉很温馨。

1． 熊熊 – foldable bike. I’m loving it more and more.
2． 熊熊父母 – Radley的皮包。很sweet。
3． 熊熊姐姐 – body lotion。还没用呢。
4． 熊熊其他亲戚 – 红包、文具和耳环。都很美。

谢谢以上的每一位，也谢谢其他sms我的朋友，让我过了一个温馨的圣诞节~

Year 2008

觉得今年过得特别快，转眼间就已经是12月了。回顾过去的12个月，发生了很多事情，于是决定blog那些较难忘的incidents。

January
1. highlighted my hair for the first time in my life.
2. 1st time tried out facial and signed up package.
3. 1st time tried out boxercise and it was fun!!!

Feb
Don’t seem to rem anything memorable that happened during this mth.

March
1. started driving lessons.

April
1. David Tao’s Singapore concert. Though not as nice as his first Singapore concert but I still enjoyed myself.
2. 1 year after graduation, finally arranged to take graduation photos at a studio with family.
3. 1st time tried out ice skating too! Managed to be in control and didn’t fall~~ wahahaha

May
1. Went for a short trip to Redang. It’s a very beautiful beach and totally a relaxing trip. 1st time tried out snorkelling and I would like to try it again soon!!!
2. Found the teddy bear in my life!!!!! *totally in love*

June
1. 1st time celebrate bear bear bday.
2. 1st Okaley sunglass.
3. Passed my final theory test.

July
1. 1st time tried out paintball and it’s so fun~
2. Went Batam for the first time. Nice and quiet place to relax and nua.
3. Gary’s 1st Singapore concert! Super! Love his voice to the max!

August
1. Went to OBS for my 2nd induction camp. Failed to try out jetty jump. Lousy me.

September
1. Went Desaru. The wave there is damn big la… tried jet ski for the first time.. though I’m not the one driving.. haha. See fireflies for the first time in my life.
2. Received my 1st bouquet of flowers (lilies) from bear bear~

Oct
1. 1st attempt for driving practical test. Failed. :(

Nov
1. 1st bling bling~
2. 1st visit to TW and was a bit disappointed. Shall go F&E next time. Visit HK again and still love to shop there as much~ hehe
3. 25th birthday celebration with bear bear.

Dec
1. 1st time to Korea, 1st time on holiday with LH and HX. Totally enjoyed myself.
2. 2nd attempt for driving practical test. Failed again. :(

2008年的首4个月因为感情方面的困扰，过得非常不开心，天天以泪洗脸。但是，自从找到了我的幸福后，我变得很开心，日子也过得较为充实。谢谢熊熊~

总的来说，2008年过得还不错。尝试了很多第一次的东西，同时学了许多新的东西。

期待2009年的到来。

Back from Korea

Couldn’t remember exactly where I went for each of the days I was in Korea. I was not as hardworking as HX and LH who recorded down where they went everyday in sequence, as well as what they buy and how much they spent.

Anyways, it is a fruitful trip I would say. My tour group consisted of 27 people and most of the people are nice, except for the pinky family.

We went to Jeju Island after we touched down at Korea. Went to a few places like the Mysterious road and Seongup Fold Village where we met the 2second artist who acted in 大长金. Some of the places which I like are the Teddy Bear Museum and Seongsan Sunrise Peak. The Teddy Bear Museum has a lot a lot of teddy bears. We were kinda disappointed coz the famous LV bear was not wearing the expensive LV leather clothes and pants. Instead it is just wearing some casual clothes. And also we didn’t manage to find the 4.5mm bear. Perhaps it is too small for ‘blind’ people like us. Seongsan Sunrise Peak is a nice place with nice scenery. The wind there was quite strong and we were quite cold when we tried our best to take photos at that area. We also tried the abalone porridge. The abalone is different from the one we always eat during CNY. The abalone there is fresh and yummy~ hehe. And of coz there was shopping too where we visited the most popular shopping street in Jeju – TopDong street.

We then flew to Daegu where we visited Dongwahsa Temple and DongSeongRo Shopping Street. Nothing impressive there and the only thing I could really remember is that my boots was opening its ‘mouth’ when we visited the temple. And also the weather was very windy and we had to use heat pad to keep ourselves warm.

The next day we went to YongPyong Dragon Valley ski resort for our skiing~ it was FUN~~~~~~~ It was the first time I try skiing. Though it was quite hard to stop after skiing down slope but after practicing for sometime I could somehow control my movement. Though the weather was about 0degree yet we are perspiring due to the ‘intensive exercise’ we were having. Not the skiing part but climbing up to the higher part of the slope so that we can ski down. The weather turn colder at night (-2degree) when we went out for dinner.

The next morning before we left the ski resort, our very nice tour guide brought us to sit cable car up hill all the way to the winter sonata place where they took the cable car. That place was at an altitude of about 1400++m. The weather there was the coldest of all! It was snowing too. But it’s just simply beautiful. I really love that place a lot. All you can see was just white colour trees and ground. We took a lot of photos there and took cable car down to ski resort and left the place.

After which we went to Decksan Spa Castle. This was the first time where I have to be naked for spa session! Some of the girls in our tour group got culture shock when they saw naked women walking around in the changing room and decided to leave the place. But I was ok and just quickly took my clothes off and bathed and then spa~ it was quite an experience for me I guess and I enjoyed my spa session. And perhaps is due to the better blood circulation after the spa session, I felt more tired at night during bedtime.

After breakfast at hotel the next morning, we went to Yongin Everland. Many have warned me about the cold and windy weather there and thus we wore more and thicker clothes on that day. And who knows I ended up perspiring and had to take off one layer of clothings. As I was a timid person (if you know me well), I did not dare to take all the scary and adventurous ride. ( I think lub lub will love that place and may take all the rides.. haha ) So we just went around taking photos. After which we went to watch a Korean performance. The first half of the show was quite boring coz other than hitting the drum there was no1 talking at all. However the second half of the show was more interesting when they start to perform and even asked some audience to join them.

As we all know, Korea is famous for kimchi and ginseng. Thus we also went to try out kimchi making. After which we got the chance to try out Korean traditional costume and took photos. We also went to some ginseng showroom and cordyceps showroom where some tour mates bought their products. We also visited the Amethyst factory. The purple gemstones can help to block away all the evils and bad things coming our way. And thus I bought a pair of earrings for mummy and one for myself.

Our tour guide also brought us to the face shop where I bought a lot of skincare worth $200000++ won!!!!! And what was scary was that everyone who was in the shop was just sweeping everything they saw into the basket in their hands. It is as if everything is FREE though the things there are abt 1/3 of the price in SG. And I was just one of them too. Haha. We also went to Dongdaemun Market where we did not manage to buy anything. And we conclude that it was not a good place to shop, at least for us. Shinchi ladies market and Myongdong were better place to shop where we bought quite some things. Too bad we did not have enough time to walk the whole place.

Lotteworld Adventure was another place that we visited. As we went there in the evening and it was a Friday, thus it was very crowded and we didn’t manage to take all 3 rides. We only took the monorail which we could have the view of the whole Lotteworld. We also took a lot of photos at this beautiful indoor and outdoor theme park.

During the last day at Korea, we went to Piccosa street which was the filming site for ‘Coffee Prince’. HX who has watched the show said that the place was not as nice as what was shown on TV. At the local product shop, I bought a lot a lot of food for my family and also lub lub family.

Overall, it is a happy and enjoyable holiday. Although I spent about 3.7k in total for package, cosmetics, skincare, amethyst jewelry, local products, photos, meals, shopping… it is quite a lot of money I would say, but I think it’s all worth it!

If I have the money and the chance, I would love to go back to Korea again. Maybe during autumn. =)

My Chirstmas Present

Thanks lub lub for the Christmas present. This is not how it looked like when lub lub first purchased it. He modified and changed and added this and added that and there it is... the one and only special foldable bike in this world... :) I'm sure you can't find a foldable bike that is exactly the same as my bike~ anyway.. the bell bell has yet to come... shall wait patiently...

《我的亿万面包》

继《恶作剧之吻》和《恶作剧2吻》后，郑元畅和林依晨再度合作。


看了三集后，我并不是很喜欢《我》。觉得郑元畅在《我》里头的演技太夸张了，但是，还是很帅啦！反之，林依晨在《我》里的演技并没有《恶》里那么夸张。


我还是比较喜欢他们在《恶》里的角色。感觉上，比较自然。


我并没有去阅读《我》的故事大纲，所以并不知道是怎样的一个故事。但是看了几集，觉得《恶》似乎比较好看哦。


但是，我想我还是会把《我》看完，毕竟可以看看帅哥嘛！hehe...

Happy 200th day to my one and only Lub Lub

Everyday we have been counting.

And then suddenly, it's the 200th day already!

Part of me feel that wow time has past so fast! We have spent 200 days together.

Another part of me feel like we have known each other for soooo long and have been walking together for longer than 200 days!

Whatever it is, I am happy to have found u 200 days ago. And thank you so much for all you have done for me for the past 200 days.

I hope that the number will continue to increase and never stop.

Love you so much! (Hm.. is this the first time I say this in my blog...)

Muacks!!!

不争气的肚子

自从上个星期，我的肚子就不听话，常常拉肚子。

这个星期二，早上起床后后，肚子超级痛！痛到不能坐直，更不必说是站起来了。看了医生，拿了一天病假，在家里休息。

吃了好几天的药，虽然肚子没有那么痛，但是时不时都还会不舒服。

再过两天就要去韩国了，肚子在不争气的话就麻烦了。

肚子一定要乖乖，那么我才能开开心心地玩，以及吃很多很多韩国料理啊！

Excited

I'm starting to feel excited over the upcoming Korea trip!!!

As I'm taking out my thick clothes to hang and then iron, as I bought my down jacket and gloves, as I start to prepare all the necessary items for the trip, I'm feeling more and more excited!!!

After consulting YT abt what to take note of during the trip, I can't wait for Sat to come!!!

Looking forward to the 8 day holiday.

Hope the 3 of us will enjoy ourselves!! :)

Happy Birthday to Mummy~

Todae is mummy's lunar birthday. My parents wanted a chinese restaurant for lunch and so I suggested Pu Tien at Tamp. I have been to the one at vivo food republic and I quite like their food. Kinda special... esp the lor mee. And since they wanted to go to Tamp as CH was supposed to go for chior at Pasir Ris in the morning, and Tamp is nearer and thus more convenient.

Lub Lub came to fetch us to Tamp. The food there is not bad and the service is quite good. We ordered a 4 platter (pork belly, duck, seaweed and pig stomach with 8 treasure), some deep fried fish, shark fin, fried oyster, steamed prawn with garlic, fried chicken, vege, sweet and sour pork, lor mee and dessert. And we have bought tropical mango cake from four leaves and we cut the cake after our lunch. The waitress there asked if we wanted them to sing birthday song for us and the daughter and sons just said yes yes!! hahaha... and then they gathered around our table and sang both chinese and english version. It was funny to see my mummy looking a bit embrassed and yet happy.

After lunch, Lub Lub drove Mummy, Grandma and me to my uncle's place to try on some winter coat. Daddy and Mummy saw the big coat I borrowed from LH and felt that it would not be enough for Korea (negative temp wor!) and said that I should get a down coat. Naj also mentioned before that I should get a good jacket and then will not have to worry about what to wear inside. So yah, checked with my aunty and so made our way down to try. But turn out that one was too small and the other not suitable for negative degree.

Grandma then decided that she wanna go down to Chinatown to buy cloth to make pants and thus Lub Lub drove us down. Then Lub Lub and I went to OG to look at the winter clothings and in the end we just got some heat pads. But Lub Lub managed to get some Christmas presents for his parents and himself. And then Daddy called to tell us that there is a cold wear shop at People's Park (I think?) and so we went to take a look. Bought a down jacket and a pair of gloves in the end. Spent $201.60! But well, as long as I maintain and keep my down jacket properly, and provided that I don't grow fatter and fatter, I can wear that down jacket for life! So now, with the down jacket and gloves and everything else, my parents and Lub Lub should not be as worried for me, I hope.

Then, Lub Lub drove us home. Mummy invited him to come up to eat mee sua with chicken soup and egg but he wanted to go home. However, Grandma said that he should come up to take a rest coz he has been driving the whole day! And I can see that Lub Lub is kinda tired too. So he agreed and rest a while and ate some mee sua before leaving for home.

Thanks Lub Lub for driving us all around SG. But I guessed it was a good chance for him and my family to interact more. And I hope that there will be more such chances to come and hopefully my family will accept him sooner. :)

Friend on road

If you see this on a car on the road, it's Lub Lub's car~~ say hi to him ok? and do look out for me, I might be in there too~

Saw this at 7eleven yesterday while Lub Lub sent his car for washing and vacuuming. Lub Lub likes it a lot but I said that it's a waste of money. But I could see that he really likes it a lot so yah we got it in the end.

Isn't it cute? hehe...

Looks like i'm starting to like squarrel (ever since we got squee squee) and hamster (rhino in Bolt!)... come to think of it.. both are brown and fury and look alike in some ways huh?

Bolt

Watched this movie yesterday with lub lub and both of us simply love the little rhino there~

So cute and funny~~~

Wahahahaha..

好久不见

昨天和好久不见的Renee, Sophia和Juli吃晚餐。

因为Juli工作还没结束，所以我们先到了MOF吃晚餐。接着再和Juli到Coffee Club喝喝东西、聊聊天。

也收到了他们送我的礼物。没想到他们送的Speaker和我收到的另外一个Speaker是一模一样的！哈哈~但是，我超超超喜欢他们送的那两对bling bling耳环。Renee 真懂我的taste。这8年的朋友没白当啊！哈哈~谢了~

又是另一次的失败

我不知道为什么会那么紧张。

甚至比第一次还更紧张。

考官一眼就看出了我紧张的情绪，一直告诉我放轻松，还慢慢地guide我要怎么走，几时该转等等。

但是，我在curcuit的第一项挑战就困难重重了。进了circuit这么多次，从没遇过这样的问题。我真的不知道昨天发了什么神经。就因为第一项任务花了很多时间和精力去完成，所以之后我就没有什么心情去完成其他的任务了。

然后，在下雨的情况下，又一辆van没有signal也没有什么，突然慢下来，然后转进小路。而我记得我是有立刻慢下来，可是考官觉得我没有。Well，如果这是他的看法，我说什么也没有什么用。

Well, as expected, failed。

我对自己非常的失望。我并不是因为没有pass而伤心，而是对自己非常的失望。为什么我在考试时总会那么的紧张？为什么考试时的表现和平时完全不一样？

昨天的我好想放弃。但是，我不会的。因为我要证明给自己看，我是可以的。更何况，考到驾照后，我就能借用熊熊的mistress了。哈哈~

Wedding Lunch

最近的一份报道说到了现在越来越多的情侣选择wedding lunch。

我本身并没有出席过任何的wedding lunch，也没有听说身边的朋友有这样的打算。但是，我觉得这是一个相当不错的idea。

大多数的喜酒都是在晚上，从8点多到11点多。如果你observe身边发生的一切，你应该会发现到了晚上10点多11点时，有些出席婚宴的嘉宾会开始离开。因为第二天要工作，又或者太晚了，想早点回家。而当晚的主角送了全部的嘉宾离开后，自己还有一大堆的事情要settle，然后洗澡休息。最后，能够真正休息时已经是半夜两、三点了。

但是，如果是wedding lunch的话呢？12点开始，两点多三点结束。不怕有人会因为明天要工作而早走，更不会有人说不要太晚回家。新婚夫妇送嘉宾离开，处理一些事情，大概傍晚时分就能休息，好好享受二人世界了。这不是更好吗？

但我想，也许有些比较保守或思想比较traditional的朋友或家人会认为wedding lunch不够大方。但是对我而言，如果wedding lunch就如同wedding dinner一样有一定number of tables，邀请身边的亲朋戚友，有“切蛋糕”仪式、“yum seng”仪式等，不就也是酒席吗？

Wedding lunch，越想越喜欢这样的idea。

Peeing matters

Was reading an article on someone’s blog about Prince William leaking in public and den ganna caught and taken photograph. Now the whole world can see the little Prince William.

And then I remembered two incidents.

A few years back when I was travelling on the MRT in SG, this mother took out a red colour plastic bag and placed it on the floor, asking the daughter to pee into it. Then the 4 – 5 year old girl pulled up her skirt, pulled down her panty and peed into the plastic bag. Yes, right in the middle of the MRT carriage, with everyone staring at her and the mother. After the little girl had finished peeing, the mother tied the plastic bag and put it under the bench. And she LEFT the plastic bag of URINE behind when she reached her destination.

Alright, the little girl might be too urgent and might wet her pants any time. Then please toilet train your girl well, if not please just let her wear diapers ya? It’s very disgusting to see a little girl in the middle of the MRT carriage peeing you know? What if some tourists visit SG for the first time and that’s what they saw once they stepped into the train? Will they have a good impression of SG? And please, being an adult, you should know that you HAVE TO THROW AWAY THAT BAG OF URINE INSTEAD OF LEAVING THEM BEHIND FOR THE NEXT PASSANGER!

During my tour in Taiwan, when I was at a theme park, I saw something which was just as disgusting. About 10 steps away from the toilet, a mother took off her daughter’s pants and panty, carried her and let her pee onto the MIDDLE OF THE PATHWAY.

Hello, you are only 10 steps away from the toilet. And moreover there was NO que in the toilet at all! Alright, if you really hate the toilet so much, please bring your daughter to a corner or some grass or bushes, instead of the middle of the pathway where people are walking past you every second.

I remembered my parents holding plastic bags for my youngest brother to pee into it when he was very young. But they do it secretly at a corner and threw away the plastic bag after that.

Yes, it’s not easy to bring a child around. Especially when they are still not very well toilet trained. So perhaps we could just let our babies/children wear diapers first until they can really control? By letting them pee in public, not only is it shameful on the parents, but the children too. And germs and bacterial will be everywhere. We have to be considerate to everyone ya?

25岁生日

今年的农历生日，在香港度过。晚上回爷爷家钱，买了个蛋糕。看着糕饼店的橱窗，决定要买那个粉红并可爱的hello kitty蛋糕。这是否证明了我虽然年长了一岁，但是我的心还是个小孩？

阳历生日的当天，使我刚从香港回来的第二天。妈咪煮了鸡腿加红鸡蛋面线给我。吃了午餐后，便开始准备出门了。一上熊熊的车，他就给了我一束红玫瑰。本来要看电影，但是因为时间的关系，我们只好取消这年头，而改去了Marina Barrage。那地方相当美，但是非常不适合穿着裙子与高跟鞋的我，所以我们逗留了一下子就离开了。

由于晚餐已经订了6点多的位子，所以到了乌节路走走，打发时间。当晚的晚餐是在hyatt hotel的pete’s place。当晚可说是和朋友的聚会，并同时庆祝另外两位朋友的生日。就这样开开心心，在欢笑中度过了3个钟头。然后我和熊熊便去买了一小片蛋糕，到了东海岸庆祝生日。

这是熊熊第一次为我庆祝生日。听着他第一次为我唱生日歌，心里有着说不出的甜蜜与感动。就这样过了一个简简单单，却非常开心与温暖的生日。

今年的生日，收到了好些朋友的祝福以及礼物：
1) 爸爸、妈咪、婆婆和爷爷给的红包。
2) 熊熊的blink blink、玫瑰花、晚餐以及陪伴。
3) 熊熊妈妈的very intelligent pocket 和sms。
4) 熊熊姐姐的红包。
5) HX和LH的红包 – 用来买一个白色的手提袋和黑色的shawl。
6) Smurfies, Staries和Dearies送的speakers和USB port.
7) Renee, HJ, Agnes, Sophia, muzi和juli送的“不知道什么礼物”（拜五才会收到哦。）
8) 当然还有其他朋友的祝福。

那些还没有送我礼物的朋友，应该知道怎么做了吧？！ 哈哈~~

我回来了


离开了两个星期，我终于回来了。


第一个星期在台湾的各个地方，可说是快把整个台湾都去了。但是，因为跟旅行团的关系，早上6点就要起床，晚上10点才会酒店。大多数时间都花在从一个地方到另一个地方的车程上，真讨厌。但是，台湾有些地方的风景还真的满美的，而我最喜欢就是逛西门町。可是就只有在最后一天才有几个小时的时间逛，真的不够啊~改次我要自己去F&E，逛个够~


接着，就回香港。在香港才一个星期，真的不够啊！但是，回香港的感觉还不错。可惜没有时间去很多地方。改次回去要去的地方还多着呢~


回来后，很不习惯这里炎热的天气。很想念台湾和香港那12度的天气哦~

我去旅行咯~

今天，我就要去台湾和香港咯~~

在这两个星期里，我会大吃特吃、大玩特玩、大买特买！

当然，我也会想念熊熊。

我不在的两个星期，熊熊要好好照顾自己ok？记得吃饭，记得多多休息，开车时要小心哦~

让我们一起期待我回来的那天。在机场迎接我回来时，一定要给我一个大大的拥抱ok？

生日wishlist

再过两个星期，就是我的生日了。

身边的朋友都在问我想要什么生日礼物。为了这个问题我还蛮烦恼的。

说真的，我已经收到了最好的生日礼物 -- human size teddy bear。哈哈~有了他，我就已经很满足了。

有了他，我的日子不再寂寞；有了他，我的每一天都过得充实；有了他，我就像是世界上最幸福的女生；有了他，就够了，真的。

但是，朋友一定还是会再问我什么礼物，所以还是要list 一下。

1）sports watch -- 我打算在香港买，因为会比较便宜。
2）更多美美的衣服和裙子 -- 台湾、香港和韩国不是更多吗？所以还是等我去旅行时买较好。
3）白金手链 -- 说真的，这样东西要买好久了，却还没有买到。为什么要白金，因为如果戴银的话，手链会变黑。
4）有bling bling的small loop耳环 -- 也是蛮想要的东西，够漂亮、够大方。
5）去很多很多地方旅行。
6）speaker -- 我只需要一个简简单单的for my laptop at home。（旧的sort sort了。）

从以上要买的东西看来，要不就是直接买首饰给我（认识我的人都知道我是没有首饰会死的人。），要不就是给我shopping vouchers，或者现金，好让我自己去旅行时买想要的东西咯。

:)

就是他

在一位朋友的部落格看到这样的一段文字。

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

不就是熊熊吗？（除了挂电话还会打给我外）^_^

Mistaken

After reading my previous entry, I think some of you might have a wrong concept abt my bday present.

Firstly, I'm not getting engaged or married yet.

And secondly,it's not big like u all may think wor.

The bunny only gets to eat 3/100 of a carrot, not 3 carrots.

We wanted to just get a simple one to replace my moonstone one. (simply because the moonstone dropped again and gone missing!!!)

And the one we got is simple, yet quite special. It's a mixture of white and rose gold. And because I do not really like rose gold, (though it is the 'in' thing now..and with the same price I can get more bling bling) so we did not get those pure rose gold. Instead we get this where the rose gold are "hidden" in a way. But it's special. Lub Lub say it's pretty.

There are other designs with more bling bling, of almost the same price. But, I do not really like. I just want a simple one. In fact, I was not even expecting a bling bling one in the first place.

Wanna get my bling bling soon~~~

1st Birthday Present

I've gotten my 1st bday present for this year... from lub lub~~~ :)

Actually we have purchased it, yet to collect.

Friday will be the day!!!

I'm a super happy girl now~~~~ :P

Was thinking tat the arrow one is the nicest among all the cuts.. and so qiao.. mine is the same cut wor.. hehe..

Though not a big one... but is pretty and beautiful... and my 1st~~~ :) (anyway big ones don't mean better... there are bigger ones with the same price and yet dun sparkle... and yet there are smaller ones with much higher price and sparkle... well.. mine do sparkle wor~~ :P)

Will wait for the bigger one when time comes.. :P

The Very ME earring and watch

Isnt this earring sweet? And it's so ME rite? hehe... Thanks lub lub~~~

Like this watch... coz it has bling bling and is pink~ Lub Lub say it's very ME.. it's selling at $224 in SG. Hoping to find it at a way cheaper price in HK.

不像我

我明明就是很喜欢旅行的一个女生。我明明就常常想要出国。我明明就是很喜欢出过那种无忧无虑的感觉。

但是，现在的我，并没有很期待接下来的旅行。

做梦会梦见台湾和香港之旅。

可是，我却舍不得熊熊。

这么多年来，就只有这次，我竟然会不想出国。

两个星期不能见到熊熊，该怎么办？

觉得自己没有用。

两个星期而已嘛，干嘛搞到像是几个月似的。

多希望能够把熊熊装进行李里，带他一起去啊。

病假

今天看了医生，请了病假，在家里休息。

喉咙发炎。

有点伤风。

有点发烧。

医生开了好几种药给我。

其中包括了我最讨厌并害怕服用的抗生素。

每次吃了抗生素，总会有点胃痛。而今天，甚至还有作呕的感觉。

肚子也似乎一直胀气，很不舒服。

可偏偏抗生素是不可以吃一半就停的，一定要吃完整个course。

我好怕那种作呕的感觉会持续一整个星期啊。

可恶的情敌

女人最大的情敌，就是电脑游戏。

在玩电脑游戏的男人，没有空应酬身边的女人。

在玩电脑游戏的男人，不会准守诺言。

在玩电脑游戏的男人，完全忘记身旁女人的存在。

“再给我10分钟”，却会变成半个钟、甚至是一个钟。

“玩一个game就好”，可这个game会持续多久，没有人知道。

电脑游戏，是女人永远的情敌。

替你紧张

今天是熊熊的考试，而我竟然会觉得紧张。

就像是自己考试一样。

一直以来，我只会在自己的考试时期紧张，不会替身边的任何人感到同样的感觉。

而熊熊是第一个会让我为他考试而紧张的人。

说真的，我还蛮担心他的。

只希望熊熊能放松一点，对自己多一点信心，加油加油，再加油。

Just do your best。

也希望老天爷能帮帮熊熊咯。

Lub Lub, Go Go Go!!

Tomorrow and Wednesday are my lub lub's exams...

Just wanna wish my lub lub all the best! Best of luck!

I'm sure you can do it... so tell yourself, you can do it!!! And then you are half way to success.

Remember... nothing is impossible!!!!

加油~

你是真正的快乐吗？

听到了笑话，你会笑。但，是发自内心的笑吗？而你，是真正的快乐吗？

听了五月天的《你不是真正的快乐》后，觉得这首歌还蛮有意义的。

如果此刻的你，认为自己是快乐的，那么问问内心深处的自己，你是真正的快乐吗？

美好的事

和熊熊去吃晚餐时，看见天上有道小小的彩虹。:)

喜欢和熊熊去油站洗车。看到用海绵往涂满肥皂的玻璃上抹了抹后的图案，满美的。然后，车子上的水被“巨型吹风筒”吹啊吹，也相当美哦~

DMS

Girls usually have PMS (pre menstrual syndrome), but I am having DMS (during menstrual syndrome) now.

Mood has been very low since the moment I woke up.

I feel like slacking.

I feel like going on holiday VERY soon.

I feel very sianz.

I get upset over small little things.

I wanna cry over stupid things.

I have no appetite for food except sashimi. And I get sad over not being able to eat that.

I need sayang, hugs and kisses so much that I feel damn down now.

Why, Why, Why do I have DMS.

:'(

5th Month Anniversary

Lub Lub and I went to SOFRA for dinner on our 5th month anni. Finally. But though the food is nice, but guess not really our cup of tea... mostly coz of the spices ba...

Introducing the new member of our family...

~SQUEE SQUEE~

He is soooooo cute... sooooooo huggable... and look at his 2 teeth... that's what i abt him the most~ hehe...

Let's see squee squee in different pose~

保佑保佑

亲爱的观音菩萨以及天上的神仙：

他是无辜的。

他这么努力、这么用功，我想你们是看得到的。

他只不过是一时的糊涂，太紧张没有检查好好，才会这样。

他努力了这么久，不能就因为这样的一个误会而毁了一切啊。

我是他的幸运星，就拿我的运气去帮他度过这一次的难关吧！

请你们保佑他，让他顺顺利利度过这次的难关。

求求你们了。

非常担心的小秀秀上

结婚



















不要紧张，不是我要结婚了。

只不过最近身边有好几位朋友、同事都在办喜事。

所以，很自然的，自己也开始想了想。

怎么说，我的思想算是属于满传统的女人的。向往结婚，和另一半甜甜蜜蜜地一起度过下半生。

常常会幻想自己会如何和生命中的那个他一起筹备婚礼，然后结婚当天又会是怎样的情况，婚后的生活又会是怎样的，有了自己的孩子后又会有什么不同呢？

虽然有很多很多问号，但是心里仍然是甜蜜的，仍然期待那一天的到来。

我不需要很盛大的婚礼，但是我希望是与众不同的。

我的酒席不需要几百桌，但是我希望能与亲朋好友分享我的喜悦。

我不需要住豪宅，但是我希望我们的家是温暖的。

而我最最最希望的是，到时候身旁的那个人，会是你。:)

男女对唱情歌

很巧。女生是我媽咪朋友的女兒。男生則是婆婆的親戚。無論他們是誰，歌曲好聽才是重要的。

林峰 & 泳兒 -- 明天以後 (粵語)




林峰 & 泳兒 -- 明天以後 (國語)

好听的歌曲

大嘴巴 -- 永远在身边
每次在933听到这首歌，都非常喜欢。但是每次都无法听到究竟是什么歌，谁唱的。那天终于知道了~好听~



丁噹 -- 猜不透
另一首每次听都很喜欢，却又不知道是什么名字的歌曲。也终于让我知道了。

没事啦

谢谢大家的关心。

我没事。

那天，只不过是闹闹脾气。想要瞒过熊熊，却还是被他发现有些不对劲儿。

和他聊了聊，虽然明知道一切都是过去，我却还是有些伤心。

但是，昨天看到他之后，一切的不开心都随风而去了。

他的拥抱、他的吻、他的一字一句、他的动作等，就是我的定心丸。

我，真的好傻哦~

害他为我担心，但是希望这也能证明他对我的重要。

熊熊，你感受到了吗？

期待再见到你的那一天。

非常非常想念你，你知道吗？

如何是好

第一次遇到这样的情况。

感觉很不舒服。

第一眼，就不喜欢她。

为什么？

是因为他们有过一段曾经？

是因为他曾经对她那么好？

是因为她曾经和他那么亲近？

是因为他曾经想要和她度过一生？

是因为她曾经伤害过他？

是因为她曾经占有他？

是因为... ...

明知道这一切就只是曾经；

明知道这一切不会再发生；

明知道过去的事情就不应该再去追究；

明知道最重要是现在，

但我的心还是有点痛；

忍了又忍的眼泪... ...不由自主地落下。

Disappointed again

The last thing I hope to get from you is throwing cold water at me.

Do you know why I don't want to share the happenings I experienced with you? Because I know at many times, you will give negative comments.

Maybe is because of this, that I don't share much of my feelings or thinking with you since young.

I would like to tell you more, share with you more. But you proved to me that I made the wrong choice. I often get to hear very negative comments from you, which made me SUPER sianz. And so I've decided not to talk so much anymore.

All I want is just your support. You don't have to give me your physical support, I just want some words of encouragement and some mental support.

I just got so sad over your comments that I cried.

I'm kinda tired.

Yet I can't do anything. I can't talk back, I can't say you back. But I can't pretend that nothing has happened!!!

Sometimes I'm just so lost that I don't know what to do.

Yes, I know you want me to have the best, and worry that I get bullied or what. But hey, I'm already 24, going 25 soon. I'm no long 4 or 5 years old. You can't always lock me in the cage. One day, i might just break open the gate and fly off.

My mood is damn low.

I still hope I can get your support.

Retreat

过去的两天，是公司的retreat。

第一天：
早上和其他同事在PS集合，然后到了我们住的酒店 -- Hangout @ Mt Emily。在那里享用早餐后，便开始了第一轮的workplan。

然后，就是retreat的第一项活动 -- food trail。和其他的4位同事一组，加上一位event company的facilitator，便开始了我们的food trail。开始的第一种事物是指定的curry puff。走下“山”，找到了一间OCK，就在那里买了咖喱角。接着便乘搭的士到了Taka找下一道菜。

我们到了一间叫toast的cafe叫了一道“field mushroom”，然后就走到附近wisma的food republic。我们做了下来，吃了mee rubus，喝了些果汁，然后就步行到paragon吃下一道菜-- sushi。接着我们就到了youth's park玩我们的第一项活动。我们得在指定的范围里寻找4片puzzle，把他们拼凑起来就可以了。我们发挥了“团结就是力量”的精神，在相当短的时间内便完成任务了。

然后我们到了cineleisure寻找下一道菜-- ikan with rice。由于当时大家都有些饱，于是我们就选择玩游戏，而抽到的是fort canning ROM。我们便乘搭的士到那里进行活动。而那里的游戏需要我们5个人的脚绑在一起，五人行地在指定范围里寻找某问题的答案。

之后，我们再乘搭的士到了orchard一带，吃了下几道菜 -- egg toast & thai grass noodles and prawn salad。然后就是指定的最后的食物了-- durian puff！woo hoo~~~~ 我们为了宠宠自己，就到了goodwood park hotel歇歇脚，慢慢享用durian puff和durian crepe以及饮料。那里的环境真得很优美，在这么高格调的地方喝杯东西，放轻松，加上钢琴美妙的旋律，真的是人间一大享受！然后，我们才乘搭的士回到mt emily。

终于可以check in并且冲个凉、休个息了。晚餐是在the Atrium的一间印尼餐馆享用。那里的食物相当不错，大家都吃得开开心心的。晚餐后，我们一群人到了cineleisure的kbox唱歌~已经有好一段日子没有唱k，发现没有什么歌是自己很想唱的了。

第二天：
早餐过后，就乘搭巴士到red dynasty玩paintball。这是我第二次在那里玩paintball，所以和上一次比起来，这次是比较得心应手了。我们和第一组对手玩的时候，我就在“死”了之后， 还被对手射了6抢！好痛啊~但是我的组最后还是赢了。但是接下来的下一组对手是我们的management team。而我们即使多努力，还是输给了他们。well，输赢并不重要，因为这次的paintball让大家都玩得很开心。而我的身体虽然有好些瘀伤，甚至有“包”，但是，我很享受整个过程。好想再去玩~

冲了凉后，我们便乘搭巴士回去mt emily。吃了好吃的午餐后，我们便开始了workplan presentation。

很快的，我们的两天一夜retreat就结束了。

要感谢retreat committee为我们安排与筹备这一切的活动。我想大家都过了难忘与好玩的两天。

当然还要谢谢熊熊特地下来接我咯~:)

可爱的paper car

在网上看到可爱的paper car，印了出来，自己摺成paper car。

可爱吧~

和熊熊吃好料

和熊熊到了cineleisure底层的BBQ Chicken吃晚餐。很久以前就知道他们有蛮不错的食物了，昨天终于和熊熊去尝了尝。

我觉得真的好吃哦~ 值得一提的是他们是用100%的olive oil，所以是比较健康的哦~ 而他们的服务业相当好。

总而言之，对这顿晚餐相当满意~

明了

以前，我总是不明白为什么有些情侣每天都要见面，难道不会看对方看到sian吗？

以前，我和我的另一半，一个星期就只约会那么一次，也不觉得怎样。

以前，我觉得常常见面的情侣，太粘了。

可是，自从熊熊出现后，我的想法似乎变了。

我每天都想见到他。

我每天都希望能够跟他在一起。

如果可以，我还真想用super glue把我们粘在一起！

好想念我的熊熊。

:(

If I could have this...









*drool*

more info to be found at http://sg.video.yahoo.com/watch/3651898/10054930

陶醉其中

今天看《娱百》时听到蔡旻佑唱抒情版的《双节棍》，超好听的！

被宠坏了

我快被熊熊宠坏了。

之前送我的东西已经有好多了。包包、O牌子的太阳眼镜、A牌子的外套、C牌子的小包包等。

现在是Agnes B的包包。















可爱的冬天帽子，为韩国行做好准备。好可爱~
































当然还有熊熊无限的爱。

*Hugz Hugz*

brownie cake

今天我的部门去了teambuilding，做brownie cake。

还蛮好玩的。想了想，发现原来这是我第一次烘一整个蛋糕哦~

Deco前和deco后的brownie cake差别蛮远的~