下一站 幸福
Finally started on this show. Have been wanting to watch coz I like 安以轩~ :) And since it is a tw drama, and heard so much gd reviews abt it, why should I miss it? Didn't have the time to catch it till recently.
Watched it on my way to work, on my way home.. makes my journey so much more interesting and time seems to pass faster too.
The last time I watched 安以轩's show was long long ago, 斗鱼.Simply LOVE tat show.. cried and cried non stop from the 1st episode to the last episode.. and even after dat whenever I listen to the sound track tears will roll down my cheeks! And now the second 安以轩's show Im watching is making me cry like nobody's biz again! I cried from the first episode till the most recent one I caught, 5th episode. My eyes were even red and teary on the mrt when I watched. I was trying my very best not to cry on the mrt!!
But it's really very sad~~~~~~~ I just can't stop crying.. but at the same time, I love this show too! and 安以轩is pretty pretty~ me like~ though I dun like 吴建豪, but the show still nice.. who noes maybe after this show I will start to like him?
Nice show~ Should watch it if u can!!!
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Monday, January 25, 2010
Girl proposing to guy
Years ago, when I watched a show on TV which helped ppl with their proposal, a girl asked for help to propose to her boyfriend. At that time, I was thinking, please lo.. how can a ger propose to a guy! Guy should take the initiative!!! Ger shouldnt do tat! NO WAY MAN!
But you all should know wat happened to me.. hahaha...
Well, I guess during that time, even though I was in a r/s.. I think.. I can't rem... I felt that I will never never propose to a guy. Maybe I have yet to meet the one. Maybe I have yet to feel that love is so strong tat u can do anything because of it.
Why must a guy propose to a ger? Is there a law tat says guy should propose to ger and ger should not propose to guy? It's just our mindset... and it is us who refused to change our own mindset. And maybe it is becoz u have yet to discover the reason for urself to change ur mindset.
When u met the one in ur life, nuthing else matter to u anymore.
So what if u set a list of criteria for your dream guy.. handsome, cool, muscular, rich, caring, love animals, dun drink dun smoke, owes a car etc etc... tat is ur DREAM guy.. the guy u will onli find and fall in love with in ur DREAM.
So what if u said things like my bf cannot be more than 2 years older than me, my bf must be at least 180m tall, my bf must treat me like a princess and gives me everything i want, my bf must this must tat... many times, in real life, the one u are spending the rest of ur life with, is totally different from all ur criteria.
I once said that my bf cannot be more than 3 years older than me.. so I once had a bf who was same year as me.. and conclusion is tat guys really do mature SLOWER than gers... and the one I have decided to marry is 6 years older than me. I once said that my bf's chinese must be gd and noe cantonese, but well my lubby is a potato. I once said that my bf must.....
When u met THE ONE.. love can be so strong that all ur criteria and must-haf become nuthing.
THE ONE is so special that change ur believe and ur thinking.
THE ONE in my life is so special and my love for him is so strong that makes me feel girl proposing to guy is ok, even though frens do not agree.
I'm really glad that I have found THE ONE.. and I'm very sure that he is THE ONE because he really makes me feel dat a lot of things are no longer important, as long as we can be together for the rest of our lives.
I just want him to feel blessed, happy, touched, loved, lucky, special....
And that's why I asked, 你愿意娶我吗？ :)
Years ago, when I watched a show on TV which helped ppl with their proposal, a girl asked for help to propose to her boyfriend. At that time, I was thinking, please lo.. how can a ger propose to a guy! Guy should take the initiative!!! Ger shouldnt do tat! NO WAY MAN!
But you all should know wat happened to me.. hahaha...
Well, I guess during that time, even though I was in a r/s.. I think.. I can't rem... I felt that I will never never propose to a guy. Maybe I have yet to meet the one. Maybe I have yet to feel that love is so strong tat u can do anything because of it.
Why must a guy propose to a ger? Is there a law tat says guy should propose to ger and ger should not propose to guy? It's just our mindset... and it is us who refused to change our own mindset. And maybe it is becoz u have yet to discover the reason for urself to change ur mindset.
When u met the one in ur life, nuthing else matter to u anymore.
So what if u set a list of criteria for your dream guy.. handsome, cool, muscular, rich, caring, love animals, dun drink dun smoke, owes a car etc etc... tat is ur DREAM guy.. the guy u will onli find and fall in love with in ur DREAM.
So what if u said things like my bf cannot be more than 2 years older than me, my bf must be at least 180m tall, my bf must treat me like a princess and gives me everything i want, my bf must this must tat... many times, in real life, the one u are spending the rest of ur life with, is totally different from all ur criteria.
I once said that my bf cannot be more than 3 years older than me.. so I once had a bf who was same year as me.. and conclusion is tat guys really do mature SLOWER than gers... and the one I have decided to marry is 6 years older than me. I once said that my bf's chinese must be gd and noe cantonese, but well my lubby is a potato. I once said that my bf must.....
When u met THE ONE.. love can be so strong that all ur criteria and must-haf become nuthing.
THE ONE is so special that change ur believe and ur thinking.
THE ONE in my life is so special and my love for him is so strong that makes me feel girl proposing to guy is ok, even though frens do not agree.
I'm really glad that I have found THE ONE.. and I'm very sure that he is THE ONE because he really makes me feel dat a lot of things are no longer important, as long as we can be together for the rest of our lives.
I just want him to feel blessed, happy, touched, loved, lucky, special....
And that's why I asked, 你愿意娶我吗？ :)
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Asking
Lubby didn't ask my parents for my hand before he proposed to me. Coz he didn't even know he should do dat. So, he only did it 1+mth after he proposed, after I said yes.
Lubby was very nervous coz he didn't know what he should say. Being a potato, He could say better in english. But my parents speak cantonese.. and their chinese is better than english. So my lubby would need to speak to them in chinese and ask for my hand. Though I have already said yes to him and my parents can't say no in a way, he was still very worried that my parents will say no.
So last Sat, before we went out, he brought a box of 3 cans of abalone and came to ask for my hand. And he succeeded~ :) He was so nervous that my mum told him 不用紧张，慢慢来。haha. In any case, he was relieved after that.
We will only choose our dates after CNY as my parents said that they dun usually ask abt such things at the end of a year. So yah, will do so after CNY.
Lubby didn't ask my parents for my hand before he proposed to me. Coz he didn't even know he should do dat. So, he only did it 1+mth after he proposed, after I said yes.
Lubby was very nervous coz he didn't know what he should say. Being a potato, He could say better in english. But my parents speak cantonese.. and their chinese is better than english. So my lubby would need to speak to them in chinese and ask for my hand. Though I have already said yes to him and my parents can't say no in a way, he was still very worried that my parents will say no.
So last Sat, before we went out, he brought a box of 3 cans of abalone and came to ask for my hand. And he succeeded~ :) He was so nervous that my mum told him 不用紧张，慢慢来。haha. In any case, he was relieved after that.
We will only choose our dates after CNY as my parents said that they dun usually ask abt such things at the end of a year. So yah, will do so after CNY.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Another Step Closer
Yesterday was our 1st appointment with HDB (after the choosing unit and pay deposit appt in Oct 09). It was a chop chop gali pok session as the lady who served us was very experienced and fast. :)
We signed in total 10+ documents. Mainly is to allow HDB to deduct money from our CPF account. And also to sign the agreement that we are getting the flat and etc.
So now, our CPF acc amt has gone down. But we are one step closer to our future.
Even though it is big money, and seriously our hse is not cheap for punggol... but I really love my hse so much.. even before it is built. It will be so convenient. Less than 5 minutes walk from our block to the MRT, bus interchange and Punggol Town Centre. Less than 3 minutes drive to TPE. Last time I dun really like Sengkang and Punggol coz I felt that they are so ulu.. but in 3 years time, the circle line will be up and with all the shopping facilities so near to our place, there is nuthing much to worry~ :)
Am already thinking of wat kinda deco we would wanna do for our hse. And lubby's parents have already started looking out for things for our hse. They have already bought us a set of super expensive forks and spoons. And then they are looking out for plates and bowls for us. Well, I feel so blessed to have them as my future parents-in-law. They are like helping us to look out for things in advance even though it is still far away. :) Really appreciate all the help. :)
Anyway alothough tat getting the keys, doing reno, paying monthly installment is going to be a big big sum... but I still can't wait for the day to come!
Yesterday was our 1st appointment with HDB (after the choosing unit and pay deposit appt in Oct 09). It was a chop chop gali pok session as the lady who served us was very experienced and fast. :)
We signed in total 10+ documents. Mainly is to allow HDB to deduct money from our CPF account. And also to sign the agreement that we are getting the flat and etc.
So now, our CPF acc amt has gone down. But we are one step closer to our future.
Even though it is big money, and seriously our hse is not cheap for punggol... but I really love my hse so much.. even before it is built. It will be so convenient. Less than 5 minutes walk from our block to the MRT, bus interchange and Punggol Town Centre. Less than 3 minutes drive to TPE. Last time I dun really like Sengkang and Punggol coz I felt that they are so ulu.. but in 3 years time, the circle line will be up and with all the shopping facilities so near to our place, there is nuthing much to worry~ :)
Am already thinking of wat kinda deco we would wanna do for our hse. And lubby's parents have already started looking out for things for our hse. They have already bought us a set of super expensive forks and spoons. And then they are looking out for plates and bowls for us. Well, I feel so blessed to have them as my future parents-in-law. They are like helping us to look out for things in advance even though it is still far away. :) Really appreciate all the help. :)
Anyway alothough tat getting the keys, doing reno, paying monthly installment is going to be a big big sum... but I still can't wait for the day to come!
Saturday, January 09, 2010
Pre-Wedding Photo Shoot
Had been doing research, reading reviews in forum, checking out the websites etc.. did a list of the bridal studio tat has gd reviews and photos with great feel or feel tat we prefer...
But who noes, we didn't need the list afterall.
We were at vivo city for movies while we walked past the bridal fair at 1st floor. Walked one round and decided to take a look at some fotos from The Aisle Bridal Boutique. The funny thing was, just one or two days ago, lubby mentioned to me abt this place. He read in the Punggol Residences forum that some of the couples are under this bs. And I remembered that it was one of the better ones I listed down from my research... I think. Anyway we looked at the album and the feel of the fotos are quite nice. We were invited to sit down and looked at more fotos.
And of coz next thing they did was intro their package to us. And also their designer. Their gowns are designed by their own designer, and they got 1st in last year's bridal show. The designer also designed some artist's dress for the count down party. And when I looked at their album of the gowns, I really like some of them. Pretty pretty and special too~
What attracted us the most was what they include in the package. We can haf all the soft copy of the raw photos of the 32 poses for the album in a cdrom! And the package includes actual day photography and the unlimited number of photos will be burnt into a cdrom for us too! And the 20'' x 40'' montage of 3 photos is nice! We felt that having the soft copies of the photos is sumthing that we feel is impt and thus we got the package!
Though we have yet to decide on our date, and thus yet to decide on our foto shoot date.. but it will be quite soon.. maybe half a year to 3/4 year time... im already sooooooooo looking forward to our pre-wedding photo shoot!
We can think of 5 locations to take our photos. Well, we have 2 in mind already... would brainstorm for nice places.. and also can discuss with the photographer and see if he can bring us to some ulu and yet pretty places~ I would think tat he is quite gd because from the photos we saw, they are not the normal normal places like botanical gardens waterfall. :)
Had been doing research, reading reviews in forum, checking out the websites etc.. did a list of the bridal studio tat has gd reviews and photos with great feel or feel tat we prefer...
But who noes, we didn't need the list afterall.
We were at vivo city for movies while we walked past the bridal fair at 1st floor. Walked one round and decided to take a look at some fotos from The Aisle Bridal Boutique. The funny thing was, just one or two days ago, lubby mentioned to me abt this place. He read in the Punggol Residences forum that some of the couples are under this bs. And I remembered that it was one of the better ones I listed down from my research... I think. Anyway we looked at the album and the feel of the fotos are quite nice. We were invited to sit down and looked at more fotos.
And of coz next thing they did was intro their package to us. And also their designer. Their gowns are designed by their own designer, and they got 1st in last year's bridal show. The designer also designed some artist's dress for the count down party. And when I looked at their album of the gowns, I really like some of them. Pretty pretty and special too~
What attracted us the most was what they include in the package. We can haf all the soft copy of the raw photos of the 32 poses for the album in a cdrom! And the package includes actual day photography and the unlimited number of photos will be burnt into a cdrom for us too! And the 20'' x 40'' montage of 3 photos is nice! We felt that having the soft copies of the photos is sumthing that we feel is impt and thus we got the package!
Though we have yet to decide on our date, and thus yet to decide on our foto shoot date.. but it will be quite soon.. maybe half a year to 3/4 year time... im already sooooooooo looking forward to our pre-wedding photo shoot!
We can think of 5 locations to take our photos. Well, we have 2 in mind already... would brainstorm for nice places.. and also can discuss with the photographer and see if he can bring us to some ulu and yet pretty places~ I would think tat he is quite gd because from the photos we saw, they are not the normal normal places like botanical gardens waterfall. :)
oh, btw, they are the sponsor for the wedding gowns in the new drama 《红白喜事》~ :) And yah.. we got a 32'' free LCD TV too~ Going to collect tmr.. and shun bian see see the bridal shop~ So excited!!!
Now the most impt thing is.. jian fei!!!! haf to slim down to look gd in the gowns!!!!! For the pretty gowns.. I will resist temptation and exercise more!!!! JIA YOU!!!
Monday, January 04, 2010
冲动与爱情
冲动，对爱情而言，是相当的重要。
男生与女生互相产生好感，但是因为双方或其中一方犹豫不决，或者害怕受伤、害怕承诺，而迟迟不敢踏出第一步。也许就会因为如此而错过了对方，错过了相爱的机会。但是，若其中一方有所冲动，向另一方穷追不舍；又或者双方都有那股冲动，把两人之间的距离拉近，那么冲动就让彼此有了相爱的机会。
不管男生还是女生，都应该要有那股冲动，向自己的另一半说‘我爱你’、‘我想你’等肉麻话语。而不应该是左顾右盼，犹豫是否应该把爱放在嘴边。如果真的爱，就说出来，何必迟疑呢？会有谁不希望听到自己心爱的人对自己说爱呢？这样的冲动也许就会让对方感觉到那份爱。
男女朋友没有约好见面，但是可能就是那一股冲动，而让其中一方出现在另一方的面前，给对方一个惊喜。这样的冲动，也能拉近彼此的心。
好想听听情人的声音，却又怕对方正在忙着，没有空听电话，或是怕打扰对方。这时就是需要这股冲动，拿起电话，按下按钮。也许对方正在想你，也许对方正需要你的鼓励，那么这冲动又拉近了双方的距离。
越来越多情侣选择闪电结婚，也许也是因为那股冲动。一般情况下，当一对情侣拍拖好几年，不是结婚就是以分手收场。有时当我们已经习惯了对方的存在，习惯得到对方的迁就与疼爱，那股冲动也就慢慢消失。没有了冲动，爱情的花火也就慢慢地减少，渐渐地，彼此就成为了最熟悉的陌生人。可能就是因为如此，很多情侣选择在热恋中凭着那股冲动，踏上红地毯。
冲动，并不一定是负面的。冲动，也可以是正面的。
冲动，在我的爱情字典里，有着重要的地位。
冲动，对爱情而言，是相当的重要。
男生与女生互相产生好感，但是因为双方或其中一方犹豫不决，或者害怕受伤、害怕承诺，而迟迟不敢踏出第一步。也许就会因为如此而错过了对方，错过了相爱的机会。但是，若其中一方有所冲动，向另一方穷追不舍；又或者双方都有那股冲动，把两人之间的距离拉近，那么冲动就让彼此有了相爱的机会。
不管男生还是女生，都应该要有那股冲动，向自己的另一半说‘我爱你’、‘我想你’等肉麻话语。而不应该是左顾右盼，犹豫是否应该把爱放在嘴边。如果真的爱，就说出来，何必迟疑呢？会有谁不希望听到自己心爱的人对自己说爱呢？这样的冲动也许就会让对方感觉到那份爱。
男女朋友没有约好见面，但是可能就是那一股冲动，而让其中一方出现在另一方的面前，给对方一个惊喜。这样的冲动，也能拉近彼此的心。
好想听听情人的声音，却又怕对方正在忙着，没有空听电话，或是怕打扰对方。这时就是需要这股冲动，拿起电话，按下按钮。也许对方正在想你，也许对方正需要你的鼓励，那么这冲动又拉近了双方的距离。
越来越多情侣选择闪电结婚，也许也是因为那股冲动。一般情况下，当一对情侣拍拖好几年，不是结婚就是以分手收场。有时当我们已经习惯了对方的存在，习惯得到对方的迁就与疼爱，那股冲动也就慢慢消失。没有了冲动，爱情的花火也就慢慢地减少，渐渐地，彼此就成为了最熟悉的陌生人。可能就是因为如此，很多情侣选择在热恋中凭着那股冲动，踏上红地毯。
冲动，并不一定是负面的。冲动，也可以是正面的。
冲动，在我的爱情字典里，有着重要的地位。
Sunday, January 03, 2010
From Cage To Zoo
Some ppl say that marriage will take away ur freedom.. instead u haf more responsibility. Well, yes I agree that we will need to be more responsible, for ourselves and each other.. but to me, marriage is another kinda freedom.
To me, I'm just migrating from a cage in a hse, to the open area in a zoo.. though not the sky. The cage in a hse is very restricted. U do wat ur owner want u to do. U need to be in ur cage whenever ur owner wanna see u. U need to let ur owner play with u when ur owner wants to. U dun really haf a say in many things. But when u are in the open area in the zoo, u can fly in a less restricted area, fly as long as u like, and when u are tired, u can rest anywhere in the zoo. U do not need to play with ur owner, u haf more say in things u wanna do. As long as u stay within the zoo compound.
I dun need so much freedom tat I can fly anywhere in the sky. A zoo is good enuff for me. That's what I'm looking forward to now. I really wish I can migrate fr the cage to the zoo soon. So that I can see my beloved in the zoo, spend time with him and haf more freedom.
I'm really so looking forward to the day.
Cycling
It has been months since we last cycled together..
Todae we went for cycling at ECP.
The sun was bright, but not very hot as the wind was quite strong.
We cycled for abt 2+hrs.. and it was better than i tot..
I tot that I will get tired very fast as I have not exercised for quite a long time.. but.. I managed to keep up lubby's speed!!! My bicycle is much much smaller than my dear's and the ratio of him paddling and me paddling is abt 1:3 becoz of the small wheels.. and I managed to maintain quite a gd speed todae! :D
Dear got me a pair of cycling shorts.. we have been looking ard and couldnt really find a not so ex one.. all the ones we saw are like over $100 and I dun think it is worth the money as I do not cycle tat often.. And I dun really invest $ into cycling.. The one we saw todae is $54 and is quite ok and dear got it for me... thanks lubby!! I felt more comfy cycling in tat padded shorts.. but... it felt weird when I was walking... coz the padding is thick!!!
We got so red and darker after the cycling session.. and slowly I start to feel tat my muscles are aching! Actually I like the feeling of aching muscles after exercise.. hehe.. feels good!
Met with frens for dinner.. steamboat buffet.. and yah there goes my 2hrs exercise.. sianz... and then we went to our fren's new hse at Duxton! Though it is not very big but it is cosy... and make us start to think abt our hse! How I wish that we can get our hse fast!!! But well.. it will onli be ready in a few years' time.. haiz.. still a long way to go........
My new cycling shorts
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