Happening Nov/Dec

It's end of the year again..with super lots of activities lined up..n peak period for work too!

Oh well life still gotta move on..so I'm looking forward to at least one exciting activity/events per werk from this week onwards..so tat I will (try to) haf motivation to work!

17nov -- PH
19nov -- choosing n fitting of gowns for pre-wedding photoshoot
20nov -- grandma's bday
23nov -- dad's bday
29nov -- my bday!!!!
30nov -- my lunar bday
12dec -- mani pedi for photoshoot
13dec -- photoshoot!!
18dec to 27 dec -- hong kong trip

And more activities to add on as days pass by.. :)

Birthday Wishlist

It has been a long long time since I last blogged… too lazy…

Since my bday is around the corner, and some may ask what I want for bday… well.. here is my wishlist!

1. Agnes B Card holder + lanyard (Pink)
2. Multi-purpose magic scarf + shawl (Black or White) --> bought online luuuu~
3. Crabtree & Evelyn Gardeners Hand Therapy cream (preferably small tubes.. 3 tubes in a box.. usually is xmas pack)
4. Estee Lauder Lash Primer Plus Full Treatment Formula and Sumptuous Bold Volume Lifting Mascara (Black)
5. Ang baos

The above are the ones that are more affordable. Haha. Of coz I do have other things in mind which are more expensive.

First Consultation with The Aisle

It has been a long time since I last posted sumthing.. that is because I have no idea what to post and there is nuthing that I realy wanna post abt it.. until today!

We went for our first consultation with The Aisle.. :)

I din noe that I will need to try some of the gowns today! I tot we will just chit chat with the designer Eddie. But who noes.. Eddie told us that I will be trying a few gowns to let me have a feel of them.. but I need not confirm any yet..

Desiree helped me with the changing of gowns.. and so paiseh la.. though we are both ladies but still feel weird to be naked in frt of her.. haha

Tried the first gown and when I looked at myself in the mirror.. omg.. I couldnt believe it! I dunno how to describe my feeling then.. it was shocked, surprised, happy etc etc... I have nv expected myself to look like tat... haha.. well I think ALL girls look pretty in wedding gowns... :D

And then I looked at my dear.. his expression was priceless... hehe... I guess he was as surprised as I was.. :)

Tried a few more and I love almost all of them!

Gonna try summore next time we meet them again for fitting and confirmation.. :)

The Karate Kid

Didn’t want to catch this movie at first coz I dun really like one of the actors inside. But I have heard so much positive reviews abt it and thus decided to check it out.

Worth my time and money and did not regret watching it.

A funny yet heartwarming movie I would say.

I’m not very sure why, but I cried right at the start of the movie. And though I laughed at some of the funny scenes, yet I cried for many of the scenes too.

I won’t say what are the scenes that made me cry as there are some others who have yet to catch this movie.

But I really cried a lot. Well maybe it is coz that I can actually feel how the boy felt. Coz I was once in a similar position. Just that I was not being bullied anyway.

However, it is really not easy to adapt to a new environment. Especially if you have to start to do so when u are at an older age. The younger you start, the easier you can adapt. I’m lucky that I didn’t start too late and I am already part of where I am now.

If you have yet to watch, you may want to catch this movie. :)

Date Set

Met up with our Master on 10 May 2010 and he explained to us things on weddings. Preparations, what to do at which date, the customary etc.

Anyway we were given a list of dates based on our requirements -- weekends, first half of rabbit year except cny mth, 3rd mth which is qing ming jie, and 6th mth which my parents felt that happy things shouldnt be done in 6th mth if not it will be 'half way' only, not complete not good.

And so we have chosen our big day date... 22 May 2011.

May is gonna be OUR month!!!

Our dating anni is on 27 May and our big day will be 22 May! :)

Anyway lubby is still having his exam, last paper on our dating anni day! So I've been doing the emailing to different hotels and restaurants.. and our first choice long ago is still our first choice now. Though that guy who replied our email like very blur.. ask him q he like nv ans and still address me as 'Kenneth'.. -_-

Will arrange to meet up with him at our first choice place after lubby's exam and see if we can have our ROM + lunch there...

Anyway I just hope that I can keep it small and simple.. not coz we are stingy.. but rather we do not want a big and complicated wedding, we prefer to have a simple gathering with all our close frens and relatives. To make it more personal.

Anyway dun expect performance such as 2x marching in, going up to cut the wedding cake, pour champange, yum seng on stage, brothers or sisters performing (well if brothers and sisters or frens wanna perform sumthing for us, we dun mind.. keep it a surprise! hahahaha).. it will just be a simple ROM ceremony, followed by a simple lunch.

Let's hope we can have a wedding that we want. :)

4 Days MC

I was on 4 days MC from Tue to Friday.

On Tue morning, I wasnt feeling very well.. migraine and giddiness. Went to see the doc in the morning and had one day mc.

My situation got worse as time passed. Couldnt eat anything. Just feel like vomitting. And by evening, I was suffering. Suddenly, I couldnt control my limbs at all. My hands and legs and whole body, from toes up till the eyes, were numb. My fingers were all closed up and I was not able to open up my hands! I was dammmmnnnn scared la.... I tot sumthing was going to happen to me... I couldnt control but kept crying. And I think I scared my mum and my brothers too. :x As I couldnt walk, my mum had no choice but to call for home doc, who arrived at 7+pm. He said that I was having hyperventilation. He gave me a jab which stopped me from puking and asked me to rest. He then gave me MC for Wed and Thur. Lubby rushed down to see me and I was happy to see him. Sumhow I felt a little better.

On Wed, my migraine didnt seem to get any better. Giddiness, severe headache and vomitting feeling still got stuck with me. I was bed ridden for the 2nd day and couldnt do anything. Just by walking to toilet could make me feel damn sick. Lubby took half day leave and accompany me. As my headache didnt go away and even got worse, my mum brought me to see the doc again, who then changed another type of med for me.

On Thursday, the pain was STILL there. I still couldnt eat much, I still felt like my head was going to explode! I really couldnt take it anymore and my mum brought me to the doc AGAIN and doc gave me a jab to stop the pain. And then MC for Friday. Thursday night lubby came to see me and whenever I saw him I would feel a bit better.

On Friday, I was recovering. FINALLY. I could walk ard the hse a little. Started talking to mum a little more. Started to eat more. And headache LESS but still there. By dinner time, I was pretty ok and could still 'say' my dear as complained by him.

Though these 2 days I am still recovering and dun feel that good but at least Im no longer suffering. I started going out yst and it was not easy. I couldnt adapt to the moving objects, people, lights and glaring sun. However, todae I'm much better already.

The past 4 days were the worse time in my life. I have never been on MC for such a long period and I felt very bad for worrying my loved ones. I just hope that migraine will leave me and wun bother me. Anyway I think I will consult chinese doc for my migraine. Anyone has any chi doc to recommend? esp for arcupuncture?

Meet The Parents Session

Finally, my parents met lubby's parents today.

It was a planned lunch at Paramount restaurant. Dim Sum lunch.

Before the lunch, I was starting to feel a bit nervous in the morning. haha. coz it's the first time they meet ma...

Anyway the lunch was ok though the parents of both sides were a little quiet.. think they dunno wat to tok abt... a bit awkward... but still arite...

So now, what we are going to do next is to find a master and choose our dates. And then start to shortlist more suitable ROM venue.

And then inform the bridal shop abt ur date and plan out photoshoot date..

SO EXCITED!!!

Trying Out New Restaurants

Have been reading blogs and reviews online on good food places.

Went to try out 2 of them.

One is Riders Cafe at Bukit Timah Saddles Club. It is at a super ulu place which u can either take a taxi or drive there. If you wanna take bus and walk there.. forget it.. u will not be able to find it.. hahaha.. anyway had brunch there with frens on Sat morning. The breakfast we tried are pretty gd. The Riders Breakfast consists of 2 eggs, sausages/hams/bacons, baked beans, grapes and toasts. According to frens and my dear who had that, the set was not bad. I had morning pancakes.. SUPER nice la! I'm not really a fan of pancakes.. for eg when I have pancakes in Mac, usually after eating 1 piece I wun wanna continue coz sumhow there is this weird flour taste... However the pancakes at Riders Cafe are GOOD! 3 thick pieces of pancakes stacked up with whipped cream (I din take tat though), raspberry and not very sweet maple syrup.. superb! really v nice.. tat even at this time I feel like eating again.. Will definitely go back for the pancakes again! We also ordered buffalo wings to share.. the sauce was just nice, and the meat was tender.. another thumbs up!

Another place tat I tried was Cafe De Hong Kong at Balestier Road Eastpac Building. Went there twice in a week. The first time was just lubby and me. We had beef brisket noodles, beef fried rice, french toast and pork chop. The beef brisket noodles soup was great.. but I feel that the noodles was a bit too hard. The french toast was one of the best I have ever eaten. To our surprise, there were peanut butter in the thick toast! And the pork chop was nice! It was in small pieces which were not oily at all and the meat was so tender that lubby couldn't stop eating!

And guess what, we went back to Cafe De Hong Kong on Sat night with frens again for dinner. :) This time round we ordered other food. The cripsy roasted chicken was not bad. The skin was very thin and cripsy. However I think they used frozen chicken and thus there were 'blood' near the bones. The You Mai Cai fried with garlic was simple yet everyone likes it. We also ordered the Cai Pu minced pork fried egg.. omg.. the egg actually 'melted' in ur mouth! The coffee pork ribs were sumthing worth mentioning too! The coffee flav was quite thick, yet not bitter but sweet. For a non-coffee person like me actually like that dish! :) The mushroom and fish soup was jsut so so and nuthing special. And of coz we ordered the pork chop and the french toast too! :) WAs a very full dinner and it only cost us abt $14 per pax with a big fat stomach! :D

Anyway lazy to upload photos.. pls just go to my FB to see.. :)

Weak Like a Jelly

My stomach has not been feeling gd since last Friday. Sat got worse. Tummy ache was on and off and I couldn't stand straight. Sunday was a bit better and then got worse in the evening.

Monday went to see doc and stayed home to rest. Doc said it was stomach flu. And coz of that, I missed one of the training. :( I wanted to go for that training coz it's on early childhood, sumthing tat I like and once wanted to take part time dip on...

Anyway Tue I went back to work and then tummy pain like siao in the evening after dinner. Went to see doc at night.. Gosh.. doc biz was sooooooo gd. It was like 9+pm and the que number of 76 while my que number was 87! I waited for abt an hr before being able to go into the room finally.

Had Mc todae.. and it was terrible! Morning woke up, run toilet, take med and back to slp. All the way till 12+pm and woke up for 2 soup spoons of porridge and a bit of steam fish. End up wanting to vomit and threw up some water. Went back to slp again till 4pm. Finally managed to eat a bit and dun feel as bad.

And todae I missed another course! :(

But anyway I am finally feeling like a human again.. was like a jelly the whole day... couldnt walk, couldnt talk.. and all I could do was slp slp slp and slp.

Hope I will be ok soon! Long wkend is coming and I have plans! I MUST GET WELL!!!!

Testing for blogging on iphone

I've been neglecting my blog for a long time..especially after i got my iphone afew mths bk. Most of the time i just use iphone to update fb status. Am getting lazy to on comp to blog.

Finally got this app on iphone n hopefully i can update my blog more often!

Exercise

I used to exercise much more than now.. swim during lunch hour, gym during lunch hour, jogging after work, badminton, cycling... almost at least 3 times per wk. But ever since I joined my current workplace, I hardly exercise. Because there was no WAH anymore.. and because by the time I reached home after work, it's already so late and I'm already so tired and hungry.

Excuses.

Anyway, whateva happened today proved that my stamina has dropped and it's time to go back to my regular exercise lifestyle before I grow fatter and fatter as days go by...

I joined the vertical challenge at my workplace today. Climbing stairs. It SHOULDN'T have been any problem for me. I can easily climb up 16 storeies to my hse, even with big bags or in heels. BUT, I actually didn't feel well at all after climbing 8 storeies today! -_-'' I really couldn't believe it that I almost vomitted and felt couldn't breathe after the mini challenge. What is happening to me? I just climbed 16 storeies the other day and I was alright! And I think I know the reason behind it. It was a challenge, I was teamed up with my colleague, and we 'ran' up the stairs.. I hate it when I have to exercise according to other people's pace. That makes me feel really really uncomfortable after the exercise. If I can do the exercise according to my own pace, I wouldn't feel unwell at all after the exercise.

That is why I would prefer to do exercise such as jogging on my own. So that I can take my time to jog, so that I dun haf to follow other's pace, so that I wun feel like shit after the exercise.

In any case, I'm going to hit the gym soon as I've gotten myself a pair of new running shoes (old one spoiling already).

披荆斩棘

早上出门上班，下大雨。到达公司，就只有头和身体没有湿，双手双脚都湿透了。

回家在City Hall换地铁，不知为何City Hall地铁站的人群挤满了半个车站。平时不必等很久就会有车，但是今天却等了5分钟也没有车。于是决定搭去Raffles Place换车比较少人。在Raffles Place上了车，没想到却听见Dobhy Ghaut！ 错了！我应该听到的是Bugis啊~ 搭错车了。于是在Dobhy Ghaut下了车，再搭回去Raffle Place，再换车回家。

这样的事情很少会发生在我身上的，今天的我是怎么了？难道真的那么累吗？

就差一个地铁站就到了，怎知道从Bedok到Tanah Merah那短暂的路程，地铁不但漫到… …还中途停了4次！有没有搞错！

-_-

My New Love

Some time back, I walked past the Agnes B boutique at Wisma Isetan, saw a black poker dot bag, fell in love with it straight away and was tempted to get it.

A few days ago, Lubby said that he would buy that bag for me!

Went to see the bag on Thursday but was still deciding if I should get the bag. Din really want it coz it is not cheap. But Lubby kept tempting me... haha.

Went to see it again today. Tried on the A4 size one.. looked kinda big on me. Tried one size smaller, looked nicer, but a bit too small for everyday use. Then I saw this new arrival (which arrived 2 days ago, wasn't even in stall on Thursday when we went there.). Black, bling bling dots, and jsut the rite size for everyday use! And Lubby got me tat~ :)

And coz every $500 spent, you can get a free Agnes B bear... and after getting that bag, it's abt $145 away from that target. So I was thinking of getting the original soft soft material poker dot bag I wanted, but the smallest size. It's more for like going for dinner, or for a few hours shopping or for a meal etc. And furthermore I do not haf such size bag! Thus, I got it~ haha. Coz I really like that pattern also and then the Agnes B bear is pretty~

It comes with a 'necklace' for the bear, which is more like a bag charm, or a bracelet.. and the sole of the bear's foot... bling bling!!!

Love my new bags~~~ Adding on to my Agnes B collection.. hehe.. really love Agnes B bags more and more~ :)

The New Environment

I've been in my current new job for 3 mths plus. It's very very different from my previous job and so far I'm liking what I'm doing now.

I'm not a desk bound person.. and thus I always look forward to time when I can leave the office for visit. My current job scope requires me to go out for field work quite often and that is my favourite part. It is the 'going out' that keeps me motivated! haha.

Why is it so?

Simply because I LOVE children. When I go out for visit, I will get to see children. :) And maybe I will even get to talk to them. :)

Love it when children wave to me when they see me at their centre.

Love it when children come to me and talk to me when I am walking ard in their centre.

Love it when children come over to hold my hand or pull my finger to get my attention when I walk ard in their centre.

Love it when I get to see children having lesson, playing games, having their meals, taking their nap, running ard......

Children really brighten up my day, without fail.

When I went down to the centre for feedback visit, which means that might be some complicated issues invovled, which means more reports, which means dealing with parents and centre... this is the part which makes my work challenging.. and I dun like it because it can be very troublesome, it can drag on and on.. but at the same time I LOVE it too! because I get to extend my helping hand, and I may even get to talk to children and interact with them (if the nature of feedback requires me to do so...). And talking to them, chattin with them, is just soooooooo fun~~ and relaxing and happy! that's the part that I look forward to everytime. This is the part which makes my visit less tiring and more exciting! :)

Even now when I'm writing this entry, I recall incidents when I spoke to the children and how fun it was.. I recall there was this time when 2 girls 'fight' to sit on my lap while toking to me.. I recall when a little girl suddenly pulled my hand and told me 'you are very pretty'.. I recall when a little took a toy apple and brought over to me and told me 'apple'.. I recall when the shy children smiled at me... all these bring smile to my face right away!

Anyway, I hope that I can cope with my job and I can build up more passion... and hopefully these children can keep me motivated!!! :)

I really do not understand why some ppl HATE children so much...

Shopping at Queensway

Went for a last minute decision shopping at Queensway last night before movie 14 blades.

We have been looking ard for oakley shades... a sporty one for me and a casual one for lubby. Went to Taka and Vivo Oakley outlets and tried on a few.. but the prices were more expensive. So we decided to go to the Queensway shop which lubby bought his other 2 Oakley from.. and also my casual shades from...

And lubby found one dat is suitable for his face. funny thing is he tried the same model at Taka but it didn't look nice on him, but when he tried at Queensway, it looked nice on him! Maybe is coz they adjusted for him to suit his face... lubby wanted to order from US and den ship over but there wun be any warranty, though it would be abt $100 cheaper... but I felt that to have warranty is quite impt.. since he's gonna wear his sunglasses everyday when he drives.. thus we decided to get it in Sg in the end.

The shades I got for my dear~

Lubby's Oakley family.. his sporty shades, his prescription glasses and his casual shades.. :)

At first wanted to get the hot pink commit for myself.. but Queensway outlet doesnt carry it. And the lady also mention that brown is more natural and not too loud, and lubby worried that after a few years I might not like pink and wun wear, brown is more of an ok colour which would be better. Thus, I got the brown one.

This is the 2nd pair of Oakley Lubby got me~ :D

Walked ard Queensway and saw this Vans shoes.. saw it at Royal Sporting House few mths back and wanted to get but was a little hesitating.. and yst when I saw it again, I dunno why I didnt hesitate and just got it.. haha.. but anyway it is really comfy... :)

下一站 幸福

Finally started on this show. Have been wanting to watch coz I like 安以轩~ :) And since it is a tw drama, and heard so much gd reviews abt it, why should I miss it? Didn't have the time to catch it till recently.

Watched it on my way to work, on my way home.. makes my journey so much more interesting and time seems to pass faster too.

The last time I watched 安以轩's show was long long ago, 斗鱼.Simply LOVE tat show.. cried and cried non stop from the 1st episode to the last episode.. and even after dat whenever I listen to the sound track tears will roll down my cheeks! And now the second 安以轩's show Im watching is making me cry like nobody's biz again! I cried from the first episode till the most recent one I caught, 5th episode. My eyes were even red and teary on the mrt when I watched. I was trying my very best not to cry on the mrt!!

But it's really very sad~~~~~~~ I just can't stop crying.. but at the same time, I love this show too! and 安以轩is pretty pretty~ me like~ though I dun like 吴建豪, but the show still nice.. who noes maybe after this show I will start to like him?

Nice show~ Should watch it if u can!!!

Girl proposing to guy

Years ago, when I watched a show on TV which helped ppl with their proposal, a girl asked for help to propose to her boyfriend. At that time, I was thinking, please lo.. how can a ger propose to a guy! Guy should take the initiative!!! Ger shouldnt do tat! NO WAY MAN!

But you all should know wat happened to me.. hahaha...

Well, I guess during that time, even though I was in a r/s.. I think.. I can't rem... I felt that I will never never propose to a guy. Maybe I have yet to meet the one. Maybe I have yet to feel that love is so strong tat u can do anything because of it.

Why must a guy propose to a ger? Is there a law tat says guy should propose to ger and ger should not propose to guy? It's just our mindset... and it is us who refused to change our own mindset. And maybe it is becoz u have yet to discover the reason for urself to change ur mindset.

When u met the one in ur life, nuthing else matter to u anymore.

So what if u set a list of criteria for your dream guy.. handsome, cool, muscular, rich, caring, love animals, dun drink dun smoke, owes a car etc etc... tat is ur DREAM guy.. the guy u will onli find and fall in love with in ur DREAM.

So what if u said things like my bf cannot be more than 2 years older than me, my bf must be at least 180m tall, my bf must treat me like a princess and gives me everything i want, my bf must this must tat... many times, in real life, the one u are spending the rest of ur life with, is totally different from all ur criteria.

I once said that my bf cannot be more than 3 years older than me.. so I once had a bf who was same year as me.. and conclusion is tat guys really do mature SLOWER than gers... and the one I have decided to marry is 6 years older than me. I once said that my bf's chinese must be gd and noe cantonese, but well my lubby is a potato. I once said that my bf must.....

When u met THE ONE.. love can be so strong that all ur criteria and must-haf become nuthing.

THE ONE is so special that change ur believe and ur thinking.

THE ONE in my life is so special and my love for him is so strong that makes me feel girl proposing to guy is ok, even though frens do not agree.

I'm really glad that I have found THE ONE.. and I'm very sure that he is THE ONE because he really makes me feel dat a lot of things are no longer important, as long as we can be together for the rest of our lives.

I just want him to feel blessed, happy, touched, loved, lucky, special....

And that's why I asked, 你愿意娶我吗？ :)

Asking

Lubby didn't ask my parents for my hand before he proposed to me. Coz he didn't even know he should do dat. So, he only did it 1+mth after he proposed, after I said yes.

Lubby was very nervous coz he didn't know what he should say. Being a potato, He could say better in english. But my parents speak cantonese.. and their chinese is better than english. So my lubby would need to speak to them in chinese and ask for my hand. Though I have already said yes to him and my parents can't say no in a way, he was still very worried that my parents will say no.

So last Sat, before we went out, he brought a box of 3 cans of abalone and came to ask for my hand. And he succeeded~ :) He was so nervous that my mum told him 不用紧张，慢慢来。haha. In any case, he was relieved after that.

We will only choose our dates after CNY as my parents said that they dun usually ask abt such things at the end of a year. So yah, will do so after CNY.

Another Step Closer

Yesterday was our 1st appointment with HDB (after the choosing unit and pay deposit appt in Oct 09). It was a chop chop gali pok session as the lady who served us was very experienced and fast. :)

We signed in total 10+ documents. Mainly is to allow HDB to deduct money from our CPF account. And also to sign the agreement that we are getting the flat and etc.

So now, our CPF acc amt has gone down. But we are one step closer to our future.

Even though it is big money, and seriously our hse is not cheap for punggol... but I really love my hse so much.. even before it is built. It will be so convenient. Less than 5 minutes walk from our block to the MRT, bus interchange and Punggol Town Centre. Less than 3 minutes drive to TPE. Last time I dun really like Sengkang and Punggol coz I felt that they are so ulu.. but in 3 years time, the circle line will be up and with all the shopping facilities so near to our place, there is nuthing much to worry~ :)

Am already thinking of wat kinda deco we would wanna do for our hse. And lubby's parents have already started looking out for things for our hse. They have already bought us a set of super expensive forks and spoons. And then they are looking out for plates and bowls for us. Well, I feel so blessed to have them as my future parents-in-law. They are like helping us to look out for things in advance even though it is still far away. :) Really appreciate all the help. :)

Anyway alothough tat getting the keys, doing reno, paying monthly installment is going to be a big big sum... but I still can't wait for the day to come!

Pre-Wedding Photo Shoot

Had been doing research, reading reviews in forum, checking out the websites etc.. did a list of the bridal studio tat has gd reviews and photos with great feel or feel tat we prefer...

But who noes, we didn't need the list afterall.

We were at vivo city for movies while we walked past the bridal fair at 1st floor. Walked one round and decided to take a look at some fotos from The Aisle Bridal Boutique. The funny thing was, just one or two days ago, lubby mentioned to me abt this place. He read in the Punggol Residences forum that some of the couples are under this bs. And I remembered that it was one of the better ones I listed down from my research... I think. Anyway we looked at the album and the feel of the fotos are quite nice. We were invited to sit down and looked at more fotos.

And of coz next thing they did was intro their package to us. And also their designer. Their gowns are designed by their own designer, and they got 1st in last year's bridal show. The designer also designed some artist's dress for the count down party. And when I looked at their album of the gowns, I really like some of them. Pretty pretty and special too~

What attracted us the most was what they include in the package. We can haf all the soft copy of the raw photos of the 32 poses for the album in a cdrom! And the package includes actual day photography and the unlimited number of photos will be burnt into a cdrom for us too! And the 20'' x 40'' montage of 3 photos is nice! We felt that having the soft copies of the photos is sumthing that we feel is impt and thus we got the package!

Though we have yet to decide on our date, and thus yet to decide on our foto shoot date.. but it will be quite soon.. maybe half a year to 3/4 year time... im already sooooooooo looking forward to our pre-wedding photo shoot!

We can think of 5 locations to take our photos. Well, we have 2 in mind already... would brainstorm for nice places.. and also can discuss with the photographer and see if he can bring us to some ulu and yet pretty places~ I would think tat he is quite gd because from the photos we saw, they are not the normal normal places like botanical gardens waterfall. :)

oh, btw, they are the sponsor for the wedding gowns in the new drama 《红白喜事》~ :) And yah.. we got a 32'' free LCD TV too~ Going to collect tmr.. and shun bian see see the bridal shop~ So excited!!!

Now the most impt thing is.. jian fei!!!! haf to slim down to look gd in the gowns!!!!! For the pretty gowns.. I will resist temptation and exercise more!!!! JIA YOU!!!

冲动与爱情

冲动，对爱情而言，是相当的重要。

男生与女生互相产生好感，但是因为双方或其中一方犹豫不决，或者害怕受伤、害怕承诺，而迟迟不敢踏出第一步。也许就会因为如此而错过了对方，错过了相爱的机会。但是，若其中一方有所冲动，向另一方穷追不舍；又或者双方都有那股冲动，把两人之间的距离拉近，那么冲动就让彼此有了相爱的机会。

不管男生还是女生，都应该要有那股冲动，向自己的另一半说‘我爱你’、‘我想你’等肉麻话语。而不应该是左顾右盼，犹豫是否应该把爱放在嘴边。如果真的爱，就说出来，何必迟疑呢？会有谁不希望听到自己心爱的人对自己说爱呢？这样的冲动也许就会让对方感觉到那份爱。

男女朋友没有约好见面，但是可能就是那一股冲动，而让其中一方出现在另一方的面前，给对方一个惊喜。这样的冲动，也能拉近彼此的心。

好想听听情人的声音，却又怕对方正在忙着，没有空听电话，或是怕打扰对方。这时就是需要这股冲动，拿起电话，按下按钮。也许对方正在想你，也许对方正需要你的鼓励，那么这冲动又拉近了双方的距离。

越来越多情侣选择闪电结婚，也许也是因为那股冲动。一般情况下，当一对情侣拍拖好几年，不是结婚就是以分手收场。有时当我们已经习惯了对方的存在，习惯得到对方的迁就与疼爱，那股冲动也就慢慢消失。没有了冲动，爱情的花火也就慢慢地减少，渐渐地，彼此就成为了最熟悉的陌生人。可能就是因为如此，很多情侣选择在热恋中凭着那股冲动，踏上红地毯。

冲动，并不一定是负面的。冲动，也可以是正面的。

冲动，在我的爱情字典里，有着重要的地位。

From Cage To Zoo

Some ppl say that marriage will take away ur freedom.. instead u haf more responsibility. Well, yes I agree that we will need to be more responsible, for ourselves and each other.. but to me, marriage is another kinda freedom.

To me, I'm just migrating from a cage in a hse, to the open area in a zoo.. though not the sky. The cage in a hse is very restricted. U do wat ur owner want u to do. U need to be in ur cage whenever ur owner wanna see u. U need to let ur owner play with u when ur owner wants to. U dun really haf a say in many things. But when u are in the open area in the zoo, u can fly in a less restricted area, fly as long as u like, and when u are tired, u can rest anywhere in the zoo. U do not need to play with ur owner, u haf more say in things u wanna do. As long as u stay within the zoo compound.

I dun need so much freedom tat I can fly anywhere in the sky. A zoo is good enuff for me. That's what I'm looking forward to now. I really wish I can migrate fr the cage to the zoo soon. So that I can see my beloved in the zoo, spend time with him and haf more freedom.

I'm really so looking forward to the day.

Cycling

It has been months since we last cycled together..

Todae we went for cycling at ECP.

The sun was bright, but not very hot as the wind was quite strong.

We cycled for abt 2+hrs.. and it was better than i tot..

I tot that I will get tired very fast as I have not exercised for quite a long time.. but.. I managed to keep up lubby's speed!!! My bicycle is much much smaller than my dear's and the ratio of him paddling and me paddling is abt 1:3 becoz of the small wheels.. and I managed to maintain quite a gd speed todae! :D

Dear got me a pair of cycling shorts.. we have been looking ard and couldnt really find a not so ex one.. all the ones we saw are like over $100 and I dun think it is worth the money as I do not cycle tat often.. And I dun really invest $ into cycling.. The one we saw todae is $54 and is quite ok and dear got it for me... thanks lubby!! I felt more comfy cycling in tat padded shorts.. but... it felt weird when I was walking... coz the padding is thick!!!

We got so red and darker after the cycling session.. and slowly I start to feel tat my muscles are aching! Actually I like the feeling of aching muscles after exercise.. hehe.. feels good!

Met with frens for dinner.. steamboat buffet.. and yah there goes my 2hrs exercise.. sianz... and then we went to our fren's new hse at Duxton! Though it is not very big but it is cosy... and make us start to think abt our hse! How I wish that we can get our hse fast!!! But well.. it will onli be ready in a few years' time.. haiz.. still a long way to go........

My new cycling shorts