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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Guys keeping eyes open

Was on the topic of r/s and guys with my colleagues today.

Is it true that many of the guys out there actually keep their eyes open big big for potential candidates out there? even if they haf gf already, they will see see look look, if there is sumone out there who is more pretty, attractive etc, he may juz dump the current one and go for the new ger?

Of coz I am not saying ALL guys are like tat? But is it tat most guys are like tat?

We have many examples ard us. Guys going after gers that have big boobs, trying their luck with pretty gers, flirting ard with pretty gers... even if they are already attached. Some may even be prepared to break up with the current gf just for some other ger out there.

Of coz guys will not have that thinking or making that move if the ger did not send any approving signals..

After trying luck with ger A, wooing her by all means, no results or she ended up with some other guy, or she already has a bf, the guy will change his target to another ger which he may find her attractive.

Instead of just putting all his effort and time on one particular ger, why not throw a fishing net and see if he can catch more fishes. The guy can try his luck with many gers at the same time, calling different gers every night, going with different gers everyday etc, jsut to try his luck to find the most suitable one.

Is it true that when guys reach a certain age, maybe 30 or 30+, if they are not in a r/s, or in an not so happy r/s, they will start looking out for potential partners. They will jsut try one after another, til they find a ger who can accept them. Therefore we see examples when ger A turn down this guy, this guy will try to date ger B. Or comments like 'i should have wooed her last time'when the guy see the ger is in a r/s.

Again I stressed that Im not saying all guys are like tat, but the life examples ard us is just proving us correct that some or most guys are like tat. And this may affect the single ladies' thinking. Single gers will not like guys to be like tat, if she wans to have a serious r/s. Single gers will worry that she might get cheated or hurt by such guys. And these guys with such behaviours or thinking will just create a longer distance between themselves and the gers. They are not giving the single gers any confidence. Instead they are just taking all the confidence that single gers might have earlier on.

So guys, what are ur opinion? wat are ur thinking?

2 comments:

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